Married to an Entrepreneur and Losing Yourself?

“If you gave so much of yourself to his dream that you’re not sure what’s left for yours, then I can help...”

Does this sound familiar? Your husband’s business comes first, and you’re a distant second. You’re sick of living like this. You want a better life. This doesn’t mean you want a divorce; you love your husband and want to stay married, but things need to change. Life feels like a constant roller coaster of emotions, and you want off.

You want to be an equal partner in this marriage instead of an afterthought, or even worse, a trophy or accessory in your husband’s life. You want him to spend more time with you and the kids, but it goes so much deeper than that.

Is he married to you or the business?

How do you become the main priority in his life again?

How do you make him see you as valuable and important?

More importantly, how do you do it without begging, pleading, or constantly having to prove your worth?

I can help you answer all of these questions and more…


My name is Michelle Van de Sande, and I have developed a unique, trademarked teaching method in working with women and their entrepreneurial husbands. I’ve done this for more than 25 years through seminars, workshops, and one-on-one mentoring. Along the way, my husband and I established the largest marriage mentoring program in Colorado, and authored an international award-winning book…Why Do You Want What You Want?

But I’m not telling you this to brag…

In fact, much of what I teach comes from my own hard-won experience.

You see, my husband Peter is a relentless entrepreneur who's built 24 businesses, and he's not done yet.

We've buried businesses, been cheated out of inheritances, and stood in hospital rooms not knowing what came next, and we're still here, stronger than ever.

I know what it feels like to lose yourself in someone else's dream, because I lived it. Now I help other women find their way back. I know what it’s like to play second fiddle to your husband’s business. To always be second and the pain and hurt that comes from that.

But it doesn’t have to be this way.

Things can change.

I’ll show you how to become a priority in your husband’s life again.

My motto is simple: Beside him. Never behind.

Couples therapy tries to fix the relationship.

This helps you find the part of you that got lost inside it.

But first you need to know where you stand…

That’s why I’ve created Do I Still Matter to Him? A diagnostic compass for entrepreneurial marriages. This gives you an honest look at the virtues that make you who you are and reveals how differently you and he may see them. You’ll learn where the disconnect lies and gain actionable insights. By the time you’re done, you’ll know what needs to change and where he sees you differently than you see yourself.

Take the diagnostic now; it won’t take more than 2-5 minutes to complete.

Don’t go your whole life wishing things were different…

How many more years are you prepared to live like this?

How many more nights and weekends do you want to sit at home while your husband is working?

You didn't lose yourself giving everything to his dream. You won't find yourself giving up on yours. This is how it starts… with you.

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